Leadership is far more than a job title. It’s a daily choice.

When we think of leadership, it’s easy to picture someone with a big title or corner office. But real leadership has little to do with job titles—and everything to do with daily actions.

Leadership is a choice we make every day. It’s how we show up, how we treat others, how we handle challenges, and how we lift people around us. It’s choosing to listen when it’s easier to speak, to take responsibility when it’s tough, and to inspire through action—not just direction.

You don’t need a certain title to lead. You just need the mindset, the courage, and the consistency to lead where you are. Because true leadership is lived – not labelled.

In the last 20 years at Live Learning , I’ve seen plenty of excellent leaders without any kind of title and unfortunately quite a few people with the title who never truly lead.

Real leadership shows up in the small moments such as:

• Asking the quietest person in the room what they think.
• Admitting, “I got that wrong.”
• Giving credit generously and taking blame when it counts.
• Staying calm when things get chaotic.
• Listening to understand, not just to reply.

In fast-moving environments, it’s tempting to lead with urgency, pressure, and control. But sustainable impact comes from a different place: trust, consistency, and empathy.

The leaders we remember most aren’t the ones who barked orders. They’re the ones who made us feel capable, valued, and seen.

What’s one leadership trait you think is underrated—but powerful?

Let’s hear it.

Howard O'Donnell

Howard O'Donnell

CEO Live Learning